Love is Healer

Lost Love!

Love use to be omnipresent in every relation years back. But today it has lost it's meaning. 
By mistake Love and Desire are mixed up. People mistake their Desire to Love.

Love is the most beautiful relation on the Earth. Whether its between Mother or Child or Between husband or Wife!!
Every relationship has its own Value and Importance.
Without Love Life is Impossible!!

Love is art Which is known to few people only!!

Love is Art Of Giving.
Love is feeling felt by everyone, but understood by few.

Love is Healer.

Live Happy Life!!

Life is the best When We

Live it...

It is difficult When We 

Analyse It...

Our Attitude defines Life!!

For Happy Life its necessary to think Different!!

Forget Two Things in Life

The good you do to others.

The bad done by others to you.

Being Religious

Being Religious doesn't means 

What you are ? When you are in Religious place!!

Being Religious means

To be same when you are not at religious place even!

God is Omnipresent.

One way to be vigilant in all that we think and say and do, is to be aware that, God is omnipresent and omniscient. 

God is aware of all that we do.

The Crack(ed) Pot!

The Crack(ed) Pot!  

A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which he carried across his shoulders. One of the pots had a crack in it, while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion. At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water to his house. Of course, the perfect pot was perfect for the task for which it was made, and proud of its accomplishments. 

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do. After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water-bearer one day by the stream.

"I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you. I have been able to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don't get full value from your efforts," the pot said.

The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, and I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you've watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without your being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."

Learning: Each of us has our own unique flaws. We're all cracked pots. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together interesting (distinctive) and rewarding. You've just got to take people for what they are, and look for the good in them. Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape. 

Remember to appreciate all the different people in your life!

In God We Trust

IN GOD WE TRUST

 

You always hear the usual stories of pennies on the sidewalk being good luck, gifts from angels, etc. This is the first time I've ever heard this twist on the story. Gives you something to think about.....

 

Several years ago, a friend of mine and her husband were invited to spend the weekend at the husband's employer's home. My friend, Arlene, was nervous about the weekend. The boss was very wealthy, with a fine home on the waterway, and cars costing more than her house.

 

The first day and evening went well, and Arlene was delighted to have this rare glimpse into how the very wealthy live. The husband's employer was quite generous as a host, and took them to the finest restaurants. Arlene knew she would never have the opportunity to indulge in this kind of extravagance again, so was enjoying herself immensely.

 

As the three of them were about to enter an exclusive restaurant that evening, the boss was walking slightly ahead of Arlene and her husband. He stopped suddenly, looking down on the pavement for a long, silent moment.

 

Arlene wondered if she was supposed to pass him. There was nothing on the ground except a single darkened penny that someone had dropped, and a few cigarette butts. Still silent, the man reached down and picked up the penny.

 

He held it up and smiled, then put it in his pocket as if he had found a great treasure. How absurd! What need did this man have for a single penny? Why would he even take the time to stop and pick it up?

 

Throughout dinner, the entire scene nagged at her. Finally, she could stand it no longer. She casually mentioned that her daughter once had a coin collection, and asked if the penny he had found had been of some value. A smile crept across the man's face as he reached into his pocket for the penny and held it out for her to see. She had seen many pennies before! What was the point of this? 'Look at it,' he said. 'Read what it says.' She read the words 'United States of America ..'

 

'No, not that; read further.'
'One cent?' 'No, keep reading.'
'In God we Trust?' 'Yes!' 'And... ?'

 

He explained, 'And if I trust in God, the name of God is holy, even on a coin. Whenever I find a coin I see that inscription. It is written on every singleUnited States coin, but we never seem to notice it! God drops a message right in front of me telling me to trust Him. Who am I to pass it by? When I see a coin, I pray, I stop to see if my trust IS in God at that moment. I pick the coin up as my response to God; that I do trust in Him. For a short time, at least, I cherish it as if it were gold. I think it is God's way of starting a conversation with me. Lucky for me, God is patient and pennies are plentiful! '

 

When I was out shopping today, I found a penny on the sidewalk. I stopped and picked it up, and realized that I had been worrying and fretting in my mind about things I cannot change. I read the words, 'In God We Trust,' and had to laugh. Yes, God, I get the message.

 

It seems that I have been finding an inordinate number of pennies in the last few months, but then, pennies are plentiful! And, God is patient...

75 questions to ask yourself

75 questions to ask yourself

 

 

An old proverb says, "He that cannot ask cannot live". If you want answers you have to ask questions. These are 75 questions you should ask yourself and try to answer. You can ask yourself these questions right now and over the course of your life.
 

 

1. Why not me?
2. Am I nice?
3. Am I doing what I really want to do?
4. What am I grateful for?
5. What's missing in my life?
6. Am I honest?
7. Do I listen to others?
8. Do I work hard?
9. Do I help others?
10. What do I need to change about myself?

 

 

 

11. Have I hurt others?
12. Do I complain?
13. What's next for me?
14. Do I have fun?
15. Have I seized opportunities?
16. Do I care about others?
17. Do I spend enough time with my family?
18. Am I open-minded?
19. Have I seen enough of the world?
20. Do I judge others?

 

 

 

21. Do I take risks?
22. What is my purpose?
23. What is my biggest fear?
24. How can I conquer that fear?
25. Do I thank people enough?
26. Am I successful?
27. What am I ashamed of?
28. Do I annoy others?
29. What are my dreams?

 

 

 

30. Am I positive?
31. Am I negative?
32. Is there an afterlife?
33. Does everything happen for a reason?
34. What can I do to change the world?
35. What is the most foolish thing I've ever done?
36. Am I cheap?
37. Am I greedy?
38. Who do I love?
39. Who do I want to meet?
40. Where do I want to go?

 

 

 

41. What am I most proud of?
42. Do I care what others think about me?
43. What are my talents?
44. Do I utilize those talents?
45. What makes me happy?
46. What makes me sad?
47. What makes me angry?
48. Am I satisfied with my appearance?
49. Am I healthy?
50. What was the toughest time in my life?

 

 

 

51. What was the easiest time in my life?
52. Am I selfish?
53. What was the craziest thing I did?
54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?
55. Do I procrastinate?
56. What is my greatest regret?
57. What has had the greatest impact on my life?
58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?
59. Do I stand up for myself?

 

 

 

60. Have I settled for mediocrity?
61. Do I hold grudges?
62. Do I read enough?
63. Do I listen to my heart?
64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?
65. Do I pray only when I want something?
66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?
67. Do I let other people's negativity affect me?
68. Do I forgive myself?
69. When I help someone do I think "What's in it for me"?

 

 

 

70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?
71. Do I smile more than I frown?
72. Do I surround myself with good people?
73. Do I take time out for myself?
74. Do I ask enough questions?
75. What other questions do I have?

How To Win an Argument

How To Win an Argument

It can be difficult for people to get their point across without hurting one another in the process. Here are some tips for effectively resolving a problem by stating your views, while being collected and reasonable. Also included are tips on winning an argument.

 

Stay calm & Keep a steady low tone. The energy you give off is usually picked up on by the other person; if you are
calm they sense you mean no harm and relax more. Even if you get emotional, try to keep your dignity and don't lash out unexpectedly. Also consider your tone of voice; try to keep a steady, low tone and volume, not fluctuating to much in speed and sound. Try to sound as relaxed as possible and avoid high-pitched sounds. Also consider your body language: have a good firm posture that makes your feel powerful but not aggressive.

 

Don't insult the other person. Avoid to, in any way, say something that might be taken as an insult. When people are angry they are much more sensitive and will take even the smallest comment as an insult.

 

Express that you are willing to listen to the other person and respect them. Even though you might not agree with what the other person is saying you need to remember that they might feel just as strongly about their views as you do about yours.

 

Be reasonable. The outcome of the argument might not be exactly what you wanted, but never expect to get everything you want. Don't let it last too long, the argument degrades if it's held out. Allow each person to speak and make their point.

 

Set healthy boundaries. If the person with whom you are arguing is angry, obnoxious or verbally abusive, should you really be interacting with them? It may be better to walk away.

 

If the argument is with a clerk, salesperson, etc. ask to speak with their supervisor. If a supervisor isn't immediately available, get a phone number.

 

Think about the possible arguments for and against your side, and the opposite side. If there is any major weakness in your argument, you must fill it before coming to a confrontation with the opposition, or risk losing the argument.
   
Identify any major pitfalls your opponent can step into. A gentle nudge here and there to get them to make some sort of fallacious statement that allows you to close the bear trap is psychologically damaging and can win an argument on the spot. Also try to take each argument to its logical conclusion.

 

Always take full advantage of any illogicality or fallacy in your opponent's argument. Return any illogical points with as many relevant logical facts as possible, to completely quash their point. If this is not possible, take their point and use it in your favor logically.

 

It's always possible to lose an argument, especially if your argument has major weaknesses. Accept it if that the case. However, arguments do sometimes come to standoffs, where no side is stronger than the other and nobody wins or loses. when this happens, learn to leave the argument as nothing can be gained by continuing to confront your opponent. When this happens, don't lose control or get desperate.

Don't Ever be Selfish

Don't ever be selfish 

Someone is noticing you always.

Buddha's Teaching From Dhammapada

Buddha's teaching from Dhammapada

We are what we think

All that we are arises with our thoughts

With our thoughts we make the world

Speak and act with Impure mind

And trouble will follow you

As the wheel follows the Ox that draws the cart.

We are what we think

All that we are arises with our thoughts

With our thoughts we make the world.

Speak or act with a pure mind

And Happiness will follow you

As your Shadow, unshakable.

Worlds best 5 Superb Quotes

Worlds best 5 Superb Quotes

Shakespeare.

"Never Play With The Feelings Of Others Because You

May Win The Game But The Risk Is That You Will

Surely Lose The Person For A Life Time".

Napoleon.

"The world suffers a lot. Not because of the

violence of bad people, But because of the silence

of good people!"

Einstein.

"I am thankful to all those who said NO to me It's

because of them I did it myself."

Abraham Lincoln.

"If friendship is your weakest point then You are the

strongest person in the world."

Shakespeare.

"Laughing Faces Do Not Mean That There Is

Absence Of Sorrow! But It Means That They Have

The Ability To Deal With It".

Atithi Devo Bhav

This phrase is in Sanskrit language:

Means: Guest is God.
ATITHI
Its combination of two words: A + Tithi.

Where, A is to without.
TITHI is to Date.
In total means One who comes without any previous intimation, as per Indian tradition and culture one who visits without prior intimation is considered as God

ONE WORD ESSAYS

ONE WORD ESSAYS!!!

 

Determination

 

Hope

 

Contemplation

 

True Love

 

Excitement

 

Security

 

Scary

 

Adventure

 

Contentment

 

Curiosity

 

Confusion

 

Honor

 

Accomplishment

 

Perseverance

 

Companionship

 

Caring

 

 

Loneliness

 

Tenacity

 

Friendship

 

What you carry on your back?

An old story tell us of an ANGEL who met a MAN carrying a heavy sack.

What is that you carry on your back , My friend? Inquired the angel.

"My Worries, Sighed the Man, Truly they are terrible burden."

Put down the Sack and let me see, said the angel.
Sack is opened but its Empty!!

Man stand astonished.
He had two great worries :
One was about yesterday, Which he now see was the past.
The other of tomorrow, Which had not yet arrived!!

Angel: "You have no worries throw the sack away."

Attitudes matters.

Life is matter of habit,

If you start complaining,

There is so much to complain about.

It is attitude that counts.

Life is an Art to live happily in all situations.

Life is about enjoying the Serene beauty of nature.

May Be... The Happiest of People

1. Maybe... we were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. 

 
2. Maybe... when the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don't even see the new one which has been opened for us.
 
3. Maybe... it is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.
 
4. Maybe... the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
 

5. Maybe... the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.
 
6. Maybe... you should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of, and want to do.
 
7. Maybe... there are moments in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child -- so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are around you appreciate them more.
 
8. Maybe... the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
 
9. Maybe... you should always try to put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person, too.

 

10. Maybe... you should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone.
 
11. Maybe... giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.
 
12. Maybe... happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.
 
13. Maybe... you shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive; don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
 
14. Maybe... you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy

 

15. Maybe... you should try to live your life to the fullest because when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling but when you die, you can be the one who is smiling and everyone around you crying.

Beautiful Silence.

Have you ever experienced a moment in your life when you just ran out of words and you go... s i l e n t ???

 

Let me assist you in recalling...

 

..... the moment when you left your home for the first time and you look back at your parents who are worried that their son/daughter are leaving them yet happy that their child took the first step towards independence.


..... the moment when the girl/boy you like most.. smiled back at you! You don't say anything.. you just smile back..

 

..... the moment when you get better marks than you expected... those "numb" moments of ecstasy n surprise "is that true?"...


..... the moment when you are parting with your old friend(s) and the train has just started... and you are standing on the door of the wagon.. waving "bye-bye" with your heart beating fast...

 

... .. the moment after the HR manager has just called you and told you,"You are through! Congrats!"

 
..... the moment when you sit alone in your room after having told everyone that you cleared that exam you prepared for 6 months!! You can go on remembering your "special" moments!
I had always wondered why I never said anything to myself at those moments.. as if it was "understood" ... happiness, joy, pain.. all feelings just flowed ceaselessly in the 'years' that passed in those flash moments!

 

They say.. the best way to communicate is through "silence". Love. Joy. Grief. Surprise. Anger. Hope. Expectations. Support. Non-cooperation. .. 
 
 
Can you imagine the importance of a silent moment in a song??

 

When Bryan Adams stops for a while along with music, before he goes on in his husky voice...

 

..... Please forgive me. I can't stop loving you!

 

Ever had those moments when you thought you were tired enough that you reach for your bed after dinner.. but find yourself wide awake looking at the roof of your room silently...
 

 

But you sure are 'thinking'.. . those moments of self-talk are the most important in our lives. Those moments when we listen to our own hearts! Those promises... those decisions... those are the moments when we make our destinies!

 

Next time you go silent... listen carefully to what your heart is saying.. listen to its joy...listen to its pain.. listen to its fears.. listen to its desires.. and Be in touch with your true self...

Do not forget..

Do not forget that in life, nothing remains unchanged and everything evolves through transformation.
You must learn how to evaluate every situation with the correct amount of modesty.

If you are living a moment of success, re-dimension your enthusiasm; If on the other hand you are waiting for a development be patient; everything turns and re-news itself.

How to Overcome Negativity for Good

It's difficult to control the words people use on us and some people get their kicks by saying hurtful things. Here are some of the few things you can do to keep your happiness and prevent negative words from ruining your day.

1. If someone tries to offend or belittle you, do not participate in his or her game. If you do not participate in the game, he or she will leave you, since it takes two to play the game.

 

2. Tell yourself that you are going to stay calm, happy and positive, no matter what people say or do. Repeat these words often, until your mind accepts them unconditionally.

 

3. Give people the benefit of the doubt. Don't assume someone is trying to offend or hurt you. Sometimes, they might be just joking or maybe they are having a bad day.

 

4. Pause briefly and think, before reacting instinctively or getting emotional. Maybe people are not referring to you? Don't jump to conclusions, without thinking first.

 

Remember; while you can't control what people say, your reaction is your sole responsibility. Have a great Week.