The Trouble Tree

THE carpenter I hired to help me restore an old farmhouse had just finished a rough first day on the job. A flat tire made him lose an hour of work, his electric saw quit, and now his ancient pickup truck refused to start.

While I drove him home, he sat in stony silence. On arriving, he invited me in to meet the family. As we walked toward the front door, he paused briefly at a small tree, touching the tips of the branches with both hands.

After opening the door, he underwent an amazing transformation. His face was wreathed in smiles, and he hugged his two small children and then gave his wife a kiss.

Afterward, he walked me to my car. We passed the tree, and my curiosity got the better of me. I asked him about what I had seen him do earlier.

"Oh, that’s my trouble tree," he replied. "I know I can’t help having troubles on the job, but one thing for sure, troubles don’t belong in the house with my wife and children. So I just hang them up on the tree every night when I come home. Then in the morning, I pick them up again."

"Funny thing is," he smiled, "when I come out in the morning to pick them up, there aren’t nearly as many as I remember hanging up the night before."

Everlasting Bond with the hills

HE is the quintessential writer who captures the myriad shades of nature like a miniature artist. He has brought immense joy to many a child by weaving a world that is as authentic as it is imaginative. Writing unhurriedly at his own pace in Ivy Cottage, Landour, Mussoorie, he is "one of the biggest tourist attractions" of the tiny hill

station. By itself, this can be unsettling when visitors barge in at the crack of dawn or late at night. But he never gets rattled and bears it with his trademark gentle smile.

Ruskin Bond autographs a book for a young fan at his home in Mussoorie. His books have been prescribed in school textbooks and countless young boys and girls write to him regularly

Meeting Ruskin Bond, who recently received the Padma Vibhushan award, is meeting an entire way of life. In an age where writers are making headlines and are heard more than they are read, he prefers to let his pen do the talking and avoids the media strobes. Straight from the heart, he writes about things that he cares about — his readers, his adopted family, verdant valleys, towering mountains, rivers and roads full of possibilites. And, of course, villages and small tea-stalls that are an integral part of the India he loves and has made his home. When you ask him why he prefers not to go to Litfests, his wry answer is: "Then I won't get  

much writing done." Refusing to be a part of the communications revolution and instead preferring to be in communion with nature as well as his inner self, he neither has a mobile phone nor an e-mail id. He prefers to write his manuscripts in long hand. To the question if he saw himself as a writer-activist who could pick up cudgels for the diminishing forest cover and rapid urbanisation, gently he says: "I don't see myself with a placard on the street but whatever I want to say, I do in my books." His books, of course, capture the magical quality of life in the hills and the people who are hardy and with deft strokes the pristine world becomes vivid. As he puts it, "When the man-nature balance is upset, animals will come into urban areas but unlike human beings they kill only for food. We men kill for greed, property, lust and for many other reasons!" Not only a champion of nature and simplicity, he is also very helpful be it to other writers (who he gives addresses of publishers and mentors) or job seekers who want to write an application. Young lovers too request him to write love letters on their behalf, though he wonders what happens later on once the girl discovers that the young man does not have the turn of phrase that had swept her off her feet. If one thought that the present generation of children, who are more into gadgets and less enamoured by nature, would not be able to relate to Bond's world, it comes as a surprise that he gets numerous letters (that too hand-written ones) from children. What is endearing is that there is a Facebook page dedicated to Ruskin Bond, with more than 19,000 likes. It says that the "writer may not be aware of the existence of this page." As a reader, sharing the joy of Bond’s Padma Vibhushan, says: "Well deserved for a man who has made many a childhood a little more magical." What Bond has aplenty is a rocking sense of humour which can be impish as well as self-deprecatory. When you tell him that they don't make writers like him any more, he grins and says, "Yes, they don't have my figure!"

As far as the writers he likes, it is the old favourites (Charles Dickens, Thomas Hardy Somerset Maugham and Bronte sisters) any day, besides RK Narayan and Mulk Raj Anand. As far as films go, Bond feels, "The movies these days have a lot of violence. I liked Nimmi a lot. A favourite is Mr and Mrs 55, starring Kishore Kumar and Madhubala." Three of Bond's scripts have been turned into films— The Flight of Pigeons into Junoon, The Blue Umbrella into a film by the same name and Susanna's Seven Husbands into Saat Khoon Maaf. With an impish smile, he narrates an anecdote when he shot for a cameo in Saat Khoon Maaf. "I was supposed to give Priyanka Chopra a fatherly peck on her cheek. In the first take, I knocked off her glasses, in the second she fell down and by the time we were on to the seventh take, the director (Vishal Bhardwaj) turned around and said to me, 'Mr Bond, I think you are doing it deliberately!'"

Awards & Honours

In a writing career spanning 63 years, the 1934-born Bond has written over 120 books, including short stories, essays, novels, travelogues and more than 30 books for children. Prominent among the collections are The Night Train at Deoli, Time Stops at Shamli and Our Trees Still Grow In Dehra. His first novel, The Room On The Roof, written at 17, received the John Llewellyn Rhys Memorial Prize in 1957. He received the Sahitya Akademi Award for English writing in India in 1992 for Our Trees Still Grow In Dehra. He received thePadmashree in 1999 and the Padma Vibhushan in 2013. In his last essay in The Lamp Is Lit, Bond writes, "There are many brave and good Indian writers, who work in their own language — be it Bengali or Oriya or Telugu or Marathi or 15 to 20 others — and plough their lonely furrow without benefit of agent or media blitz or Booker prize. Some of them may despair. But even so, they work on in despair. Their rewards may be small, their readers few, but it is enough to keep them from turning off the light. For they know that the pen, in honest and gifted hands, is mightier than the grave."

SELECTED WORKS

•  Garland of Memories
•  Funny Side Up
•  Rain in the Mountains — Notes from the Himalayas
•  Our Trees Still Grow In Dehra
•  Dust on the Mountain
•  A Season of Ghosts
•  Tigers Forever
•  A Town Called Dehra
•  An Island of Trees
•  The Night Train at Deoli
•  A Face in the Dark and Other Hauntings
•  The Adventures of Rusty
•  The Lost Ruby
•  Crazy times with Uncle Ken
•  The Death Of Trees
•  Tales and Legends from India
•  Time stops at Shamli
•  Grandpa tickles a tiger
•  The Tiger In The tunnel
•  The Parrot Who Wouldn't Talk
•  The Doctor
•  Hip Hop Nature Boy and Other Poems
•  Tales of Fosterganj
•  Secrets

NOVELS

•  The Room On The Roof
•  Vagrants in the Valley
•  A Flight of Pigeons
•  The Blue Umbrella
•  The Sensualist
•  Delhi is Not Far
•  Maharani
•  Angry River

MEMOIRS & TRAVELOGUES

•  The Road To The Bazaar
•  Once Upon A Monsoon Time
•  The India I love
•  Footloose in Agra
•  Landour Days — A Writer’s Journal
•  Roads To Mussoorie
•  All Roads Lead To Ganga
•  Scenes From a Writer's Life
•  Tales Of An Open Road
•  On The Road to Badrinath

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By: Aruti Nayar

Near To The God - Socrates

By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.

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Death may be the greatest of all human blessings.

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Do not do to others what angers you if done to you by others.

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Envy is the ulcer of the soul.

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Get not your friends by bare compliments, but by giving them sensible tokens of your love.

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If a man is proud of his wealth, he should not be praised until it is known how he employs it.

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Regard your good name as the richest jewel you can possibly be possessed of - for credit is like fire; when once you have kindled it you may easily preserve it, but if you once extinguish it, you will find it an arduous task to rekindle it again. The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.

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Remember that there is nothing stable in human affairs; therefore avoid undue elation in prosperity, or undue depression in adversity.

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Remember what is unbecoming to do is also unbecoming to speak of.

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The only good is knowledge and the only evil is ignorance.

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The shortest and surest way to live with honor in the world, is to be in reality what we would appear to be; and if we observe, we shall find, that all human virtues increase and strengthen themselves by the practice of them.

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Think not those faithful who praise all thy words and actions; but those who kindly reprove thy faults.

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Thou shouldn't eat to live; not live to eat.

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Having the fewest wants, I am nearest to the gods.

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I know nothing except the fact of my ignorance.

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There is only one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance.

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I decided that it was not wisdom that enabled [poets] to write their poetry, but a kind of instinct or inspiration, such as you find in seers and prophets who deliver all their sublime messages without knowing in the least what they mean.

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The hour of departure has arrived, and we go our ways - I to die, and you to live. Which is better God only knows.

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Bad men live that they may eat and drink, whereas good men eat and drink that they may live.

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Best Way To Live

Forget the past: Its already past. Once time pass by going back and re-living the moment is impossible. So thinking over the past is simply wastage of time. And its burden that you are carrying purposelessly. 

Live The Present: Live this second. Yes every second that you breath-in is present, rest all is past and future. Every passing second adds to your past, then it's not matter of today or yesterday. Live this moment of your life to the fullest. Moment in which we breath is Own... rest all is mystery..  We will Live for next second is not sure. So Live every second as if it is the last of your life.

Stop Thinking about Future: Future is uncertain. We don't know whats written in our life after a second.. Minute... or Hour.. So If We are thinking about something too much to happen then we are simply wasting our time. Because nothing is in our hands.

Live now .. Live this Moment.. Live Happy.

Love Quote

When you read a love quote…

You never think of the person who has written the quote

but

You always think of the person whom you love

the most. . . .

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“When our absence does not change someone’s life..,

then accept the reality that our presence has no meaning in their life…!

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The sweetness of this life lies in remembering Him, the sweetness of the next life lies in seeing Him!

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Teacher and Student

As Vivekananda says, “The only true teacher is he who can immediately come down to the level of the student and transfer his soul to the student’s soul and see through the student’s eyes and hear through his ears and understand through his mind. Such a teacher can really teach and none else.”

In another context he went on to say, “a Vedic sage … proclaimed the glad tidings ‘Hear ye children of immortal bliss…’ Allow me to call you brethren by that sweet name. …Ye are the children of God, the sharers of immortal bliss, holy and perfect beings.”  In this statement Vivekananda opens the door to spiritual truth for all, East or West or, as Kipling puts it, “But there is neither East nor West, Border nor Breed nor Birth, when two strong men stand face to face though they come from the ends of the earth.” In other words, there is no distinction to be made between Indians and Americans or Westerners in general, as to what teachings are appropriate or to be given. But the entire burden is not on the teacher alone; the student needs to do his/her part also. As the Swami says, “With the teacher … our relationship is the same as that between an ancestor and his descendant. Without faith, humility, submission and veneration in our hearts to our religious teacher, there cannot be any growth in religion.” 

The most fundamental thing Swami Vivekananda ever said was, “Worship your guru as God, but do not obey him blindly; love him heart and soul, but think for yourself. No blind faith can save you; work out your own salvation [with diligence, as Buddha said]. Have only one idea of God, that he is an eternal help.”Now some may feel that this statement contradicts the previous one. As Emerson wisely puts it, “A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, … With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do.” (Ralph Waldo Emerson, Essays: First Series (1841) History)

My good friend Michael Fell made the point that there is a parallel to a good marriage where “Devotion of a couple each to the other is not incompatible with each one thinking matters out for himself (or herself). Neither should feel fettered in thought. And neither should disturb the faith of the other.”

Now, then how is the teaching to be given? Swami Vivekananda says, “The teaching must…be modified according to the needs of the taught…Fire a mass of bird-shot, one at least will strike; give a man a whole museum of truths, he will at once take what is suited to him. Past lives have molded our tendencies; so give the taught in accordance with his tendency…” 

Swami Vivekananda constantly reiterates the need to allow the aspirant to think for himself, to choose for himself. Why is he following this method rather than asking for complete acceptance, as many teachers do? In my opinion, he has confidence in the capacity of the student to choose wisely. Swami Vivekananda is following the tradition of the Bhagavad Gita where Krishna ends his teaching with  “Thus has wisdom more profound than all profundities been declared to you by Me. Ponder it carefully, then act as you think best.” Perhaps this is what Pascal meant when he wrote, “People are generally better persuaded by the reasons they have themselves discovered than by those which have come into the minds of others.” Pascal, Pensees No. 10

When one formulates an idea so that it gives one the “aha” experience, that is more likely to persuade us of its truth than any formulation by the teacher, although the teacher had to have prepared the ground for the student. Learning does not come by mere memorizing of texts. Ideas have to be thought on and made one’s own by reformulating them in our own terms or, as Swami Vivekananda says, “It is wrong to believe blindly. You must exercise your own reason and judgment…”

 Albert Einstein agrees: “Blind obedience to authority is the greatest enemy of truth.” 

Songs For Soul

Today when Listening to old melodies... on Radio.. Beautiful Hindi songs one after the other. Songs that really touch your soul and force you to go along and dream and co-relate with your life. I thought of sharing.

Song :

Tera Mujhse hai Pehale Ka Nata Koi ...
Yuhee Nahi Dil Lubhata Koi....

Song recorded in the voice of Child. Really make you Feel Like, Yes! Its True... On the Path of Life's Journey We meet so many people. Very few touch the chords of Heart. And we feel that only blood relations are not the true one... but the one which we feel by heart are true. When we meet those souls... connecting to our heart directly.. we do not hesitate to share our experiences, sorrows, happiness with them. They are the first to whom we reach.

I remember, this is very old saying... If you want to know who is close to your heart.. to whom you are more attached? Its the one you reach first when you are Sad. One with whom you can share your sorrows and griefs. So these people are real angels in life. They are present around us and What I feel that we have some relation in our previous lifes with them. Thats Why We get attached to them easily.

Another Song in voice of Mohammed Rafi, that touched my soul :

Kya Hua Tera Wada...
Wo Kasam ... Wo Irada...
Bhulega Dil... Jiss Din Tumhe ...
Wo Din Zindagi Ka aakhri Din Hoga....

Yaad hai mujhko tune kaha tha
Tumse nahi ruthenge kabhi
Dil ki tarah se haat mile hain
Kaise bhala chootengey kabhi
Teri baahon mein beeti har shaam
bewafa yeh bhi kya yaad nahin...

Thats True .. We all live for love and feel like giving ourself completely to the one called soulmate... or special someone.

More we are in love with one, more we start expecting, and it pains when something goes wrong. 

These words are beautifuly coating one's situation. when in love we don't want to live away for a second but its destiny that decide.. what a human being can do is... write... recite.. and listen to the music that touches soul, when alone.

Song... that takes you to the peak of love .. and make you feel what really love emotions are:

jis gali me teraa ghar na ho baalamaa
us gali se hame to guzaranaa nahi
jo dagar tere dvaare se jaati na ho
us dagar par hame paav rakhanaa nahi

zindagi me kai ragaraliyaan sahi
har taraf muskuraati ye galiyaan sahi
khubasurat bahaaro ki kaliyaan sahi
jis chaman me tere pag me kaate chubhe
us chaman se hame phul chunanaa nahi
jis gali me teraa ghar na ho baalamaa 

aa ye rasame ye kasame sabhi tod ke
tu chali aa chunar pyaar ki odh ke
yaa chalaa jaaugaa mai ye jag chhod ke
jis jagah yaad teri sataane lage
us jagah ek pal bhi thaharanaa nahi
jis gali me teraa ghar na ho baalamaa

This song is from movie Kati Patang, 1971. Singer is Mukesh and lyricist Anand Bakshi.

The One who really knows what love is ... can understand the emotions involved in this song. Emotions are for those with heart. Some one has rightly said, love Either makes you or breaks you. So In love its all about love , feelings. Blessed are those who get chance to live with the love of their life. 

Blessed are those... who sit together and spend time creating beautiful memmories together. Yes I will say too... I would not like to go through the street, where no home of my love is!! I will not take the path .. that do not lead me to you.

Of Course Songs are voice of our soul.

Divorce After 35 Years

 An elderly man in Mumbai calls his son in New York and says,

'I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce; 35 years of marriage... and that much misery is enough!'

'Dad, what are you talking about?' the son screams.

'We can't stand the sight of each other any longer,' the old man says.

'We're sick of each other, and I'm sick of talking about this, so you call your sister in Hong Kong and tell her!'

Frantic, the son calls his sister, who explodes on the phone.

'Like heck they're getting divorced,' she shouts, 'I'll take care of this.'

She calls Mumbai immediately, and screams at the old man, 'You are not getting divorced. Don't do a single thing until I get there. I'm calling my brother back, and we'll both be there tomorrow. Until then , don't do a thing, DO YOU HEAR??' and she hangs up. 

The old man hangs up his phone and turns to his wife. 'Okay', he says, 'It's all set. They're both coming for our anniversary and paying their own airfare!!'

MORAL

No man/woman is busy in this world all 365 days.

The sky is not going to fall down if you take few days LEAVE and meet your dear ones.

OFFICE WORK IS NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE and MONEY MAKING IS NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE.

Message Of Love

If You Really want to love ...

Reopen the forlorn pages ...

Admire them... 

Imagine them...

Relive them...

If You want to gift

Gift your love...

complete yourself...

Your Faith...

Your Support...

Your Trust...

The one, Truthful in love... 

Resides Close to God...

Beautiful hearts are very rare..

If you had one chase them...

Hold them...

Keep Close to your heart forever...

Where beautiful heart lives ...

Adds to the beauty of the place..

Make it lively...

Make it the place worth Living...

Heart close to God is the one...

Who learnt to live with itself..

Who is not alone being alone..

Heart which knows itself better ..

Is the heart full of love...

Take out time ...

Sit with yourself...

Explore Yourself..

Love Your Soul..

Love The Gift with in you..

Understand yourself..

More You are close to yourself more you are close to God...

This is said...

Its easiest for the richest person ...

To explore within self..

And it becomes easier to explore your inner self being rich...

Because when you are satisfied externally in all respects...

than you feel the emptiness of the heart ...

and then you find the path to reach the God..

To reach Your heart...

But when a poor person explores heart...

Although many other materialistic things are required to survive..

Is Gem of the Gem...

Its the toughest thing to do...

As per Budha Saying in Dhamanapada..

One who has crossed the mind intelligence...

And reached to the..Level ... Which is closer to God..

Is alone in crowd...

Because When some one crosses one's level of mind..

Becomes the reason for others Jealousy...

and normal mind people do not accept it easily...

And the other person to be alone in crowd is ...

The fool... Living below the intelligence level...

One who has learned to Love ... 

The One...

The Creator ...

The Lord..

Ultimately, Receives Love from all around...

In return... Because...

When One learn to love God..

Learn to Love Everything ..

After all its creation of God...

While Living remember...

We all are traveler's ...

On the Path of Life...

Spread the message of love ... 

Give your love to all you meet...

because that...Love...

Will count in the End...

This is said....

Often fragrance cling to the hands...

That shower Roses on Others...

Lets Become hand showering rose petals..

Lets spread the Message of Love...

Admire the one close to God...

When We Learn to Love ...

We know we are on right Path.

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© Impressions

DIFFERENT THINGS MOTIVATE DIFFERENT PEOPLE

There was a young boy who used to come for regular practice but always played in the reserves and never made it to the soccer eleven. While he was practicing, his father used to sit at the far end, waiting for him.

The matches had started and for four days, he didn't show up for practice or the quarter or semifinals. All of a sudden he showed up for the finals, went to the coach and said, "Coach, you have always kept me in the reserves and never let me play in the finals. But today, please let me play."

The coach said, "Son, I'm sorry, I can't let you. There are better players than you and besides, it is the finals, the reputation of the school is at stake and I cannot take a chance."

 The boy pleaded, "Coach, I promise I will not let you down. I beg of you, please let me play."

The coach had never seen the boy plead like this before. He said, "OK, son, go, play. But remember, I am going against my better judgment and the reputation of the school is at stake. Don't let me down." The game started and the boy played like a house on fire. Every time he got the ball, he shot a goal. Needless to say, he was the best player and the star of the game. His team had a spectacular win.

When the game finished, the coach went up to him and said, "Son, how could I have been so wrong in my life. I have never seen you play like this before. What happened? How did you play so well?"

The boy replied, "Coach, my father is watching me today." The coach turned around and looked at the place where the boy's father used to sit. There was no one there.

He said, "Son, your father used to sit there when you came for practice, but I don't see anyone there today." The boy replied, "Coach, there is something I never told you. My father was blind. Just four days ago, he died. Today is the first day he is watching me from above."

Moral of the story: Motivation can push you beyond your terrors & your limitations.

You are simply you

There is no such thing as a good person or a bad person. There are choices and actions that lead us in different directions, and it is through those choices and actions that we create our realities. Sometimes we choose or do something that takes us in the opposite direction of the reality we want to create for ourselves. When we do this, we feel bad—uneasy, unhappy, unsure. We might go so far as to label ourselves "bad" when a situation like this arises. Instead of labeling ourselves, though, we could simply acknowledge that we made a choice that lead us down a particular path, and then let it go, forgiving ourselves and preparing for our next opportunity to choose, and act, in ways that support our best intentions.

Many of us experienced childhoods in which the words good and bad were used as weapons to control us—you were good if you did what you were told and bad if you didn't. This kind of discipline undermines a person's ability to find their own moral center and to trust and be guided by their own inner self. If you were raised this way, you may find yourself feeling shockwaves of badness when you do something you were taught was wrong, even if now you don't agree that it's bad. Conversely, you may feel good when you do what you learned was right. Notice how this puts you in something of a straitjacket. An important part of our spiritual unfolding requires that we grow beyond what we learned and take responsibility for our own liberation in our own terms.

You are a human being with every right to be here, learning and exploring. To label yourself good or bad is to think too small. What you are is a decision-maker and every moment provides you the opportunity to move in the direction of your higher self or in the direction of stagnation or degradation. In the end, only you know the difference. If you find yourself going into self-judgment, try to stop yourself as soon as you can and come back to center. Know that you are not good or bad, you are simply you.

Avoid Time Spoiling on these

1. Make-up is not required before going to Gym for exercise.
2. Don't refresh facebook pages again and again, you are simply wasting your time.
3. Stop picking your phone without reason again and again just to check any new call or message.
4. Stop thinking for your worries all time.
5. Avoid late night online browsing.
6. Capturing everything in camera is time wastage.
7. Remembering fights and quarrels for longer time.
8. Using your mind for complaining.
9. Waiting for change.
10. Thinking about past mistakes and feeling that mistakes were done by you. 
11. Try to be happy as it's not available in market.
12. Sitting idle is your enemy.
13. Don't think that you are not ready for something you wish to do.
14. Don't ignore the importance of small things.

Live Your Day In Eight Ways

We can fight with power. But problem for Human Being arise when We link our past fights(tensions) and future fights(tension) and spoil our present.
Its necessary To live a day in a day, that 's today.

1. Face the fear and feel the difference: Everyday something bad happens. Only we need to learn is how to cope  with it? Never fear the failure because failures lead to success ahead.

2. Let the tough time go by: Whenever Day Month Or Year passes bad, It changes the things and that change is for good. If you have learnt something from your past then definitely you will be benefited from your current problems.

3. Try to take the challenges: Don't fear the challenges, take the challenges, face them. Never Wait for perfect time. Try something challenging for twenty seconds at least, you will earn something good out of it.

4. Keep asking yourself: Ask yourself simple questions like: Who Am I? What I want? How Can I do my work in best way? What Next step I need TO take rightly?

5. Keep Doing Hard work silently: In this Doubtful World Try to see the dreams. In World full of anger try to forgive. When you will learn to do this, then you will feel the power with in yourself which were lost. If you are surrounded by negativity , think positive and try to be positive. This Is leadership. Do hard work silently.

6. Find Permanent solution to the problem: Avoid temporary solutions , because it may worsen the problems.To fight the challenge we need to workout and this is temporary.

7. Never stop yourself from speaking truth: Never hide your thoughts and feelings. Be Brave, speak the truth. Not speaking the truth is biggest problem, leads to pain , sorrows and grief. If You don't say what you really feel, and to make others happy if you say something or react then you turn into liar.

8. One Friend but trustworthy and true: Now or later on in life you would like to have people around you , who make you happy , comfortable and bring feel good factor in your life. So spend maximum time with these people. Its better to have one true friend who's always there in hour of need and your sad days, instead of having many for happy and celebration days.

Wife' s Letter to Husband

Dear Love

Today we completed two years of our life' s journey that we started together.

I am Happy That I Met wonderful person like you in my life. Who Was always there to stand by my side whenever I needed. 

I Love the way you look at me. I love the way you hug me. Time spent with you is so precious and full of love that I can't believe that yes it was once part of my life. Its like my dream only. I am Happy That I am blessed with you.

Before meeting you ... I use to wonder why people say that love is blind. But Today I agree with everyone Yes... Love is Blind.

Love Is blind. I love you so much that whenever I see you I see person who is full of love . Person who is my Husband. Person whom I love most. I am unable to see any thing negative in your nature.... No person is perfect ... but when I say I am in love with you... I must say you are perfect to me.

I always complain that You hurt me a'lot or you are hurting me... reason I am mad in your love and can't Imagine my life or even single second of my life without you. I never dreamed of life without you.

Sometimes I think if I were suppose to live alone even after marriage than why I got married. I had answer for this. God wanted me to understand the value of Love. Now I realize How much I love You?

As time passes by, I think of you only, My every thought , My breath is with you only. More I think of you ... more I fall in love with you.. More I fall in love with you ... more I Miss You.

No Other Thing or person on this earth can make me happy or satisfied as much you do. When I love you... When I think of you I feel Our Companionship as divine. When You are with me its like God with me in my prayers.

I must say You are the best Husband on this Earth, or in this universe. I love the way you care for me . I love the way you hold my hand. Whenever I am Sad I recall that night when I was hospitalized and you were standing by my side throughout. You did not had your dinner even. You tried your level best to comfort me.

No food taste better than the one you cook. My all days and nights are with you only. 

Today I am with our daughter. Whenever I miss You I look at her and admire her features that resembles you, I think that's the reason I don't want to sleep at night... because I love to see my daughter ... as she form unseen bond with you.

Bond of love... I know you are missing her this growth phase... but I know that she will turn into perfect daughter and you will turn into perfect father.... and you will forget this phase of life. 

Today I confess... to me Love Is your synonym.. I can bear anything in love but only thing that kills me is distances. I will bear the pain of being away from you but day distances in heart will try to come ...that day will be the last of my life. Because I will not be able to bear. I trust the One who created Us.

Who Gave my hand in yours? 

Let me tell you one thing... I call my self loving daughter of God. God Might have trusted you more than himself that's why he handed over my hand to you. So I will never raise question on his choice and your love for me. 

He sent you in my life as an answer to my prayers.. I always prayed for the best Men, Angel, and the one who will live with me for rest of my life. 

For Our relation I am answerable to God. Its only God Whom I fear and love the most.. !!

You must feel jealous in that case. But one thing that is common for both of you is That I love you and you love me.

You added one wonderful relation in my life ... of Motherhood. I feel like dying for her single instance of smile.... I sit beside her to capture the best of her face expressions... that's because of you. 

I am thankful to you. For filling my life with all the Joy, Happiness, love.

To every lighter side darker phase is also there. So this phase will pass soon. I believe in you. 

Yes I am Blind in love... Your Love...

Sometime I wonder this relation of husband wife is not of Blood but still it full of feelings, care, understanding. This Relation is created by God .... When Two bodies come together to form one soul. That's why soul mates are there. This is the relation that hold power to bring new life into the World. 

After two years of journey with you If I am writing about love is only because of you. 

May God bless us and our relation with love , care , affection, togetherness ahead. 

Happy anniversary. 

Only Your's

Mad in Your love... 

True Love

ਦਿਲਹੁ ਮੁਹਬਤਿ ਜਿੰਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਸੇਈ ਸਚਿਆ ॥

dhilahu muhabath jinnh saeee sachiaa ||

They alone are true, whose love for God is deep and heart-felt.

ਜਿਨ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਮਨਿ ਹੋਰੁ ਮੁਖਿ ਹੋਰੁ ਸਿ ਕਾਂਢੇ ਕਚਿਆ ॥੧॥

jinh man hor mukh hor s kaandtae kachiaa ||1||

Those who have one thing in their heart, and something else in their mouth, are judged to be false. ||1||

In My College Days I Love to Learn about teachings and preaching' s of Guru Nanak Dev Ji, Baba Farid, Kabir Ji... And Poetry of Bulle Shah, Waarish Shah. Every time I Love to recall these sayings and implement in my life. I would Like to share it with you all as well.

dhilahu muhabath jinnh saeee sachiaa ||

jinh man hor mukh hor s kaandtae kachiaa ||

Phrase mentioned above is from teachings of Baba Farid. In This proverb he says : One who love by true heart are true people. The one Who are dark deep in their heart but show love from face are Liars.

Very Few will understand what love from heart is?

As if Baba Farid Says: Whenever you love , love from deep heart with all purity with your soul involved. Because when you love someone fully involved it show you the path that leads to eternity and links you to one great soul , God.

When we love from core of the heart than feeling of satisfaction is distinct. More you love , more you chase it, and more you get trapped into it.

You want more of it every time. You never feel fully satisfied and you want more and more of it. Every time you live the relation with love , more you feel bound to it.

Love is that sea from where you never want to come out all though you drown and its depth is un-measurable.

For Every true heart God is there, Listening, observing, and always there to rescue. Love is the path that leads to God.

Never under-estimate the power of true love. Because there is one Who knows the truthfulness of your love and will never raise finger at it.

So Go ahead love truly and he will surely understand you. He will give you hand to hold.