Sunday 1 September 2013

Understanding Your Spouse


When two people start their journey together, definitely they have some dreams, plans and lot of expectation from the relationship ahead.

What to Remember?

It's your life journey, Your feelings. Before reaching for any conclusion, or taking any decision, consent of both should be there.
Never try to impose or superimpose .
This may lead to painful ending.
When decision is for both of you especially, take it together. Kill the tensions rising between your relation.
Don't leave your spouse alone when you are most needed.
Love each other unexpectedly, without any limits. 
Laugh together on your own mistakes.
Share when you want to share it, don't keep it in heart. Try understands feelings. Not sharing may lead to distances.

Let's  be together

Go for Walk together.
Enjoy Every thing around you.
Be the best friend of your spouse.
Be silly , Be kiddish.. Do stupid Kiddish things together.
Go for a date, do not stop at any age, as it re-kindle the flame of love.
Kiss passionately.
Never let romance Die.
Give your spouse tight hug before leaving for office and after coming from office.
Never be dumbstruck in your relation.
Do not allow others to interfere in your relation and decisions.
Don't think your spouse as other person.
Understand your spouse dreams and expectations. If you can't fulfill them at least respect them.
Try to live every single moment when you are together enjoy it to the fullest.

Understand

Never let ego come between your relation. it leads to dead-end. May kill your relation.
Never take your ego seriously.
Share your feelings and fears.
Try to see best in your spouse, without expecting them to change.
Accept your follies, don't pass the blame.
Give your spouse time and your focus " BE PRESENT" When they are around or when they are opening there heart to you. Specially when they are upset. 
Make commitment to grow together, dream together, find common goals and vision to work towards.
Invest in creating something that leads to eternity in your love.
Focus on future rather than carrying weights from the past. 

-- Impressions

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